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I learnt a valuable lesson from Broderick. He's actually right. You cannot read someone else's mind. Man is not God.

The right man for you will be able to coax some of your desires from you - he will be able to start the whole thing off - but, he will need a little bit of help, otherwise he may have to spend years peeling back the layers to find out what makes you tick - and by then he'll probably be bored stupid - Or, you will find yourself with a control freak, masquerading as a loving dominant....

To reach what you seek takes courage. And courage is being able to state, clearly, what you seek, otherwise it is a taking without giving. It IS hard - I know, because I'm still coming to terms with it myself - and struggling to actually get the words out of my mouth.

But all it needs is one little step....and then your journey will begin.

Lois Lane.

by Lois Lane on 2005 Feb 10 - 20:45 | reply to this comment Right on. You make me want to give you a hug, Lois. You warm my heart.

I'd also like to add that men too fantasize about mind-reading women. I used to dream about finding a girl who had such a connection with me and such feminine intuition that she would know my deepest desires without my having to wrestle with the words. But now I practice that tool that I'm sure everyone has heard of, "When __ happens I feel __ because __." (I know you're rolling your eyes at that.)

I'm pretty sure that most conflicts are misunderstood misunderstandings. If you just knew that it was a miscommunication in the first place then much of the frustration wouldn't be necessary. People naturally relate and understand when they are told about human struggles. We are all human; its just about learning to let people know what's going on.

This doesn't have to fly in the face of the Taken In Hand ideas. Just talk about it.

by Broderick W. on 2005 Feb 11 - 04:33 | reply to this comment Exactly! You could not have said it more perfectly, Lois.